This is an article I wrote for The Pitch, Kansas City’s renowned alternative publication. You can read the full article here.
Tajma Stetson slipped on her sickening sequin gown, fixed her crown and then slowly slid onto the seat of the grand piano in her living room. As she removed her clarinet from its case, she told me “Hey, by the way, my clarinet’s name is André. He’s my main man.” She then hoisted her instrument over her shoulder, and flashed me a brilliant smile as the shutter on my camera started clicking. Stetson was clearly no stranger to being in the spotlight, in and out of drag.
Stetson is one of the local dazzling queens of Nightingales at Nighthawk—coined as “Kansas City’s Downtown Drag Affair.” In a sea of queens, you’ll be able to spot her fiery red hair, sickening mug, and voluptuous curves from a mile away. Alongside her weekly jaunt around the speakeasy, she is an active contestant in drag pageantry and holds the titles of Miss Gay Missouri America 2022 and Miss Gay United States 2019. Yes, Kansas City just so happens to be home to one of the most decorated drag queens in the Midwest.
After a long performance, Stetson gets to come home, pour herself a glass of bubbly, and relax in her living room that features a grand piano, Keith Herring prints, and a multitude of plants. Next to the grand piano sits a sheet music stand, which designates a space where she gets to practice her classical music favorites when she’s out of drag.
When the wig and mug comes off, Stetson transforms into someone equally as fabulous. As a clarinetist for the Kansas City Civic Orchestra and the principal clarinetist for the Kinnor Philharmonic, Michael Tolbert dominates the Kansas City performing arts scene in more ways than one.
Tolbert moved to Kansas City to pursue his Doctorate of Musical Arts at the University of Missouri-Kansas City. Tolbert, already having his masters, decided to not finish his studies at UMKC and dive headfirst into his pursuit of performance arts instead after finding himself in a whirlwind of inspiration drawn from the city’s art scene.
“I moved to Kansas City in hopes of landing in an orchestra. I got an invitation to be a part of Kinnor Philharmonic which is the Kansas City Jewish Orchestra conducted by Dr Chris Kelts. They were looking for a clarinetist, and I didn’t even have to audition,” Tolbert says. “I mean, I think my first rehearsals and performance were my audition, and so the rest is history. I’ve been sitting with them for 12 seasons now. And every time a concert rolls around, I try to rise to the occasion, remembering I didn’t have to audition, so I better be good.”
After landing his spot in Kinnor Philharmonic, he got the opportunity to compete for a seat in the Kansas City Civic Orchestra, which regularly performs pieces at the Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. These seats are extremely limited, as musicians from all over the metro spend years perfecting their craft to even get a glimpse into life as a professional musician.
“Eventually one of the seats came up and I got the seat because I was one of their reliable subs… It’s truly by the gifts of the universe that I got those seats, because they’re a lot of really terrific, dazzling clarinet players all over Kansas City, both professional and amateur,” Tolbert says.
Her workspace shows the dedication that goes into the performance art of drag. // Photo by Sophia Lail
As he grew into his professional career, drag became a passionate hobby of his. The move from a small town in Michigan to up-and-coming metropolitan proved to be monumental, as he suddenly found himself in a city with sickening drag queens that were already dominating the industry. As he immersed himself in Kansas City queer culture, the representation gave him the inspiration that solidified the idea that his work in drag could make the transition from hobby to serious career move.
“I saw queens doing fashion shows, girls that traveled… They were the star entertainers of nightclubs, they were singing cabarets, they had a full catalog, they had a full wardrobe. They all had big time drag members that they were doing here,” Tolbert says. “And I was able to have a glimpse of that. And I went, ‘Oh my God!’”
Inspired by the seemingly glamorous lives of Kansas City drag queens, Tajma Stetson was born. She was given her start at Sidekicks Saloon—an iconic local spot for “cowboy-loving-cowboys.” Her name was bestowed upon her by Shania Stetson—a renowned Kansas City drag queen turned current Chicago entertainer.
“I was already going to be a Stetson, because I’m from the House of Stetson. So here I am thinking I was going to be like Sarah or Stephanie or something, and when they said Tajma, I was over the moon. It took me one breath to accept that as a way of life,” Tolbert says.
Stetson spent months perfecting her fiery red hair and luxe persona, not wanting to take the pure drama of her name for granted. By 2009, Miss Tajma Stetson was already a decorated drag queen. Since her debut, she has claimed over a dozen titles through the pageantry circuit.
National drag pageantry has existed since Miss Gay America debuted in 1972, and has left its mark in modern pop culture since Rupaul’s Drag Race first aired in 2009. Early pageants, before the modern glitz and glam, were held in bars and discotheques post Stonewall.
“It was a protest that we’re starting pageants to not only find the best queen that we know in these parameters of these categories, but to say, ‘Hey, we’re going in every city, in every town, in every state, to say we’re here, we’re queer, we’re fabulous, we’re putting on a show, and we’re going to find the queens; We’re going to find Miss Gay America,’” Tolbert says.
Tajma Stetson has acquired a crown collection to envy in her years doing pageantry. // Photo by Sophia Lail
His love of all things classical music helped him find the foundation for his persona as Tajma. Wielding his clarinet, he intermingled his love of classical music and drag through the talent portions of his performances, which helped him go above and beyond in pageantry.
For much of his life, he was a clarinetist first and drag queen second. Like many of us who found solace in musical arts programs, he spent much of his adolescence hunched over sheet music and working to find ways to stand out amongst his peers.
“I played recitals, played in orchestras; I knew what I was doing. It’s not like I was an amateur drag queen and an amateur clarinetist. I was a pro clarinetist; One of them had to come up, and it was my drag,” he says.
Yet, he really put in the work. After getting serious about drag, he decided to dedicate some space to creating gag-worthy looks for performances that no one else could replicate. Feathers and sequins strewn about, his home workspace is a mix of glamour, passion, and pure chaos. Dresses from years past hang off the side of storage racks that are filled with work-in-progress accessories, archived statement pieces, and hand-sewn garments.
The intersection of both of these creative pursuits creates a certain harmony that many of us could take notes on. Drag has created an outlet for Tolbert to be offbeat; a display of creative freedom that he might not get in orchestra, whereas his classical training in clarinet brings dimension to his drag and opens doors for him in the world of drag pageantry.
These two seemingly opposite creative outlets make the perfect recipe for an outstanding drag queen. Orchestra and drag cannot exist separately within the world of Tajma Stetson, and thank god for that. She said it best, “Beyonce could not exist without Beethoven.”
Tolbert’s performance schedule as Tajma Stetson for Nightingales at Nighthawk can be found on their Instagram, and his performances for Kinnor Philharmonic and the Kansas City Civic Orchestra can be found on their websites.